A new semester is like a fresh page. New classes, new faces, new opportunities. But here’s a question worth reflecting on as you focus in: Who are you being, when you’re doing what you’re doing?
It may sound like a riddle, but it is really about checking in with yourself. College life is busy with classes, work, group projects, late-night study sessions, but behind all that “doing” is the kind of person you’re “being.”
What Does That Mean?
• When you are stressed in a group project, are you being a teammate who encourages or one who shuts others out?
• When you disagree with a roommate, are you being respectful or reactive?
• When you communicate with your instructor, are you being thoughtful or rude?
Why It Matters
Who you are being shapes how others see you and how you see yourself. Being intentional, kind, respectful, curious, creates stronger relationships and less conflict. When you are careless, rude or reactive, it can leave behind stress and misunderstanding.
A Challenge for the Semester
Before you hit send on that email, walk into class, or speak up in a meeting, take a second to ask yourself: Who am I being right now? Then pause. Take a breath, and choose who you want to be before you act.
That small pause can change your whole college experience.
And if who you want to be does not match what you are doing, the Student Ombuds Office is a safe place to talk it out.
Here to listen. Here to guide. Here for you.
Three ways to reach out:
matc.edu/ombuds
414-297-6294